Safety & support
You don't have to figure this out alone.
Aisa is a guide for reflection, not a crisis service. If something feels unsafe — for you or someone you care about — please reach out to one of the lines below. They are free, confidential, and staffed by trained people.
United States
If you are in immediate danger, or someone else is, call 911. They can dispatch police, ambulance, or fire.
Call 911Free, 24/7, confidential. For anyone struggling, overwhelmed, or having thoughts of suicide or self-harm. You can also text 988.
Call or text 988Free, 24/7. For anyone experiencing domestic abuse or coercive control, or worried about someone who is. You can also text START to 88788.
Call 1-800-799-7233Free, 24/7, confidential. Connects you with a trained staff member from a local sexual assault service provider. Chat also available at online.rainn.org.
Call 1-800-656-HOPENever send money, gift cards, wire transfers, or crypto to someone you've only met online — no matter how convincing the story. If it's already happened, report it to the FTC. If money moved through a bank or card, call them next.
reportfraud.ftc.govUnited Kingdom
If you are in immediate danger, or someone else is, call 999 (or 112). They can dispatch police, ambulance, or fire.
Call 999Free, 24/7, confidential. For anyone struggling, overwhelmed, or having thoughts of suicide or self-harm.
Call 116 123Free, 24/7, run by Refuge. For anyone experiencing domestic abuse or coercive control, or worried about someone who is.
Call 0808 2000 247Free, 24/7 support line for anyone affected by rape, sexual abuse or any other form of sexual violence, whenever it happened. Online chat at 247sexualabusesupport.org.uk.
Call 0808 500 2222Never send money to someone you've only met online — no matter how convincing the story. Report romance scams to Action Fraud, the UK's national reporting centre.
Call 0300 123 2040Elsewhere: please use your local emergency number and crisis line.
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